Making new friends are easy but finding a trust-worthy friend is hard.
I lost my girl bestfriend of 13 years down the drain when she picked her boyfriend of 3 months instead of me. We share everything and do almost everything together. I didn’t care is she was with him 24/7 or he was always clinging onto her. But what tick me off the most is that she would break the girl code/friendship code that we had promise to keep each other secrets. Instead she told her boyfriend about my secrets, He would limit our hanging out or girl time together and later HE made her pick between us.
After losing the trust I had in her; just made me walked away…. I was being mature and not let her pick because she had already disappointed me… Her boyfriend became her husband and they have a beautiful family. We are still friends on FB BUT I've limit myself from talking to her or saying anything to her. She has up’s and down’s in her marriage but I just distinct away.
Once that person stab me in the back will NEVER gain my trust again… Sadly I miss our LOL, cries, up’s and downs but maybe it’s for the best….
Am i wrong for acting cold towards her or avoiding her?